For families
Give them the chance
to be heard.
And give yourself something to keep forever.
A letter to you
You're thinking of someone right now. Maybe a grandparent. Maybe a parent. Someone whose stories you've heard in pieces — at dinners, on drives, in the moments before they changed the subject.
You've always meant to sit down and really ask. To record it. To get it all down before it's too late.
The AskThemNow session kit is for that person. And for you.
It isn't a device. It isn't an app. It's a carefully chosen set of questions — organized by depth, by tenderness, by courage — printed on cards, with a small voice recorder and a guide for how to begin.
You're giving them the chance to be heard before it's too late.
And giving yourself something to keep forever.
— From the people at AskThemNow
A small team. All of us have someone we wished we'd asked more.
What's included
The AskThemNow
Session Kit.
60 question cards
Organized by depth. Start Here, Go Deeper, and The Ones That Take Courage.
A voice recorder
Simple, one-button. No apps, no setup. Just press and listen.
The conversation guide
How to begin, how to listen, and how to sit with the silences.
An envelope for the recording
To keep. To give. To open someday when you need to hear their voice.
The kit
Free shipping within the US. Arrives in 3–5 days, gift-wrapped, with a handwritten note.
No subscription. One purchase. Yours to keep.
"We used it with my grandfather last Thanksgiving. He talked for three hours. I didn't know any of it."
"My mother cried. Not from sadness — from being asked. She said no one had ever asked her to tell her whole story before."
There is still time. Use it.